Experience the delicate balance!

After I wrote my blog: Ingredients, a few friends were insistent that we actually put the thought of visiting a farm into action. I started researching farms around New York that we could visit with tots around 2 years in age. None of the little ones had been to a farm before and it seemed like they were finally ready for the experience. Remember the famous quote: “…. everything you see exists together in a delicate balance. ….we are all connected in the great circle of life.” Yes it is from The Lion King and this is my favorite part of the story. We can hope that our kids will understand this fact as it forms the basis of their future challenge, to create a sustainable world around them.

I found two farms that seemed most enticing in terms of family activities, it’s distance from New York and based on overall online reviews.

1. Alstede Farms in New Jersey: 45 minutes from downtown New York
2. Harbes Family Farm in Long Island: 2 hours from downtown New York

Both farms provide several family fun activities like pony rides, opportunity to feed livestock, pick-your-own, farm market, educational field trips, hayrides, etc. Harbes Family Farm also has a wine-barn to keep the adults entertained :)

Given similar activity options we picked the closer option in New Jersey and we were not disappointed at all, as evidenced in the pictures. Alstede Farm is very well laid out for families to enjoy each activity. Once you park your car all the different activities are right around you, you don’t have to walk much further from your car.

I was hoping that tots would pick their own produce and understand the source of fruits and vegetables they eat. Instead all of them gravitated first towards feeding the livestock, the tots and dads climbed the haystacks, enjoyed the pony-rides and then took a break for some delicious farm-made ice cream. The adults enjoyed freshly made cucumber and tomato salsa, a great low-calorie treat on a hot day. Of-course some of us enjoyed the burgers and fries. After a good meal, the tots plopped down for a kiddy wagon ride (wagons pulled by a tractor). After almost 3 hours  on the farm I could tell that the dominos were going to come crashing down, but then they spotted the corn-pit a great twist on the sand-pit. The tots played in it for an hour and we had to then pull them out. They had a blast, but did not make it to pick-your-own. The key to pick-your-own is to get to the farm at 9:00AM (or earlier) and enjoy it for an hour before the sun comes down on you.

Overall a fantastic visit and I was later wondering if I should try visiting other farms. Maybe not. It is important to track down one farm in your state that works for you and your tots, if you can visit this farm at-least 3-4 times during spring-summer and fall – it will be great source of joy and fun for you and your family.

Both these farms will be holding a corn maze adventures as well as pumpkin patch in the fall (September – October), don’t miss out.

Wouldn’t it be great if we can bring up our little ones on a farm – at least during the first few years of their life? Just so that they can understand the delicate balance in our ecosystem.